Senior Citizens - A Burden or A Blessing To The Society ?

The Life of Seniors is becoming more and more complex and confused in the present day changing Life Style. Years back, the presence of Elders at home was considered an asset and blessing, but that is no more the case.

Increasing longevity, migration of a major section of youngsters to different parts of the world in search of livelihood, both husband and wife going to work, lack of patience to adjust to the needs and aspirations of youngsters and elders in a family, total alienation from the traditional way of life, from food to fashion, celebration of festivals to following customs and cultural outlooks, have brought a pathetic breaking of affectionate ties and relationships between the young and elders. 

As a result most of the elders are put to untold misery and tension, being unable to decide as to how and where they should live, to avoid unpleasantness and undesirable atmosphere at home.

For those fortunate elders who can and are living with their children, grand children etc life is OK except for the usual ups & downs that are inevitable in any one's life.

But for those unfortunate seniors who for many reasons are unable to stay with their children, life becomes too tough especially with advancing age and particularly for those who are unwell - physically, mentally, emotionally and financially. The boredom of living alone is causing untold miseries. Every day passes with unimaginable hardships.

    WHAT THEN WE CAN THINK AS SOLUTION ?

1) The Elders must accept and adjust with people living around them and learn to live affectionately in their company.

2) Elders can form small groups among themselves and arrange for common food preparation etc and start living as a community.

3) Those who can afford can select a decent and compatible Seniors Home and go and stay there, where they can have friends of their age and temperament.

 Apart from the above respective solutions there are many more.

Youngsters should take it up as their solemn duty to help. Protect and shower love on the elders around their area, despite several constraints like lack of time, commitments at home etc. On special occasions they can visit the elders and spend some time with them, invite them for breakfast, lunch, dinner etc and get the hearty blessings of the elders.  This will give the youngsters great mental and internal satisfaction and also make the elders feel happy and elated. Besides children seeing such services being done to elders by their parents, brothers, sisters etc will know the value of doing service to elders. We pray for the well being of millions of elders who are yearning for love, care and respect.